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Spanking Play Partner Checklist
I thought there might be a need for something like this in the Spanking Scene. It is a Spanking Activity Checklist. It is a great tool when meeting up with a new partner or even to use with your current partner when deciding on playing with new toys or style. Contact me
to add to this list.
This is loosely based on The BDSM Play Partner Checklist
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Everyone has differect experience and different play styles. It is important to have mutual respect and communication between partners. Both Tops and Bottoms have Limits, discuss them. It goes both ways. Both Tops and bottoms have the right to stop a scene at any time. Safewords MUST ALWAYS be respected. Trust is one of the most important things in a kink relationship, BUT ultimately YOU are responsible for your own safety.
So use your common sense folks, listen to your gut, and Play Safe, Play Sane, Play Consensually and Enjoy!
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Spanking Partner Checklist - Dedicated to Tammad
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Spanking Activity
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Experience
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Willingness to Try
0= never - 5=YES
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Notes
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1. Wooden Paddle
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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2. Leather Paddle
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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3. Belts/Straps
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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4. Hand
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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5. Canes
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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6. Crops
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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7. Flogger
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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8. Cat-O-9 Tails
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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9. OTK
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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10. Bent Over
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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11. Light Bondage
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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12. Hard Bondage
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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13. Nipple Clamps
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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14. Roleplay
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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15. Top (are you?)
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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16. Bottom (are you?)
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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17. Switch (are you?)
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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18. Public Play
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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19. Private Play
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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20. Domestic Discipline
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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21. Sexual Fondling
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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22. Sexual Penetration
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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23. Sex is OK
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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24. NO Sexual Play
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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25. Spank w/ Panties
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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26. Spank Bare Bottom
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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27. Spank w/ Thong
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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28. Verbal Scolding
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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29. Verbal Humiliation
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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30. Dress Up
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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31. Brat (are you?)
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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32. Leave Marks
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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33. Pink Bottom
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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34. Red Bottom
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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35. Need for Tears
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Yes/No
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0-1-2-3-4-5
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Establish A SAFEWORD! A Safeword means, Stop immediately. Please do not make it "Ouch". |
To make play more enjoyable it is important to share with your partner! |
0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1 Don't want to do, but will.
2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.
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Play Party Etiquette of Sorts |
Always Respect Safewords.
All play must be consensual.
Respect each others limits.
Play by the host/hostest rules.
I am not sure how true this is, but at my first Spanking Party a friend told me of a Panty type code about full panties and thongs. In any event, please check first if your partner is OK with the removal of panties. Thongs are a great way to enjoy a bare bottom spanking while keeping your panties on!
Please write to me
if you have anything to add here.
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I have also found that there are not a lot of places on the web that deal with Safety and places for Newbies to get good information, so I want to recommend a few sections on my website Submission. While this site deals more with Dominance and submission, you will find a LOT of great information there.
Beginning BDSM
Hand Books, Players Manuals, Safety
D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Essays
Meeting Others in the Scene
If you are planning on using a personals website to meet folks in the scene, PLEASE read this. I used to be the website manager for alt.com, and I have added a lot of helpful information here, including Safety.
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