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THE JOY OF SPANKING
By Tanonamous - Used with permission.
Read the entire S&M A Players Handbook Here.
The article is for CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY
While spanking can be a lot of fun, it is important to be able to do it
enjoyably and safely. Toys used to spank with can range from leather or
light balsa wood to heavy, dense wood or plastic. It is safe to use an
open hand or a paddle of almost any weight on the ass. The human buttocks
can take an amazing amount of punishment safely, because of the thick
layer of fatty padding that occurs over the gluteus maximus. The only
unsafe toys to use on the buttocks (or anywhere else, for that matter)
would be anything made entirely of metal.
Metal spiked or studded paddles may be used with caution by an experienced
spanker, on the buttocks only. If you break the skin, be sure to maintain
sterility with the use of an antiseptic (I recommend Betadine or Hibiclens)
and latex gloves, especially if you do not normally "share germs" with
your partner.
The general rule is, the denser and heavier a toy is, the more potentially
dangerous it is. Most of the heavier paddles are only safe for use on
the ass, because of its protective layers of fat. No heavy paddles should
ever be used to strike any other part of the body, because of the potential
for actual injury rather than erotic pain. If you want to play with other
parts of your partners body, there are other toys that are far better
suited for that purpose.
Canes, crops and cats can always be used safely on the buttocks, provided
your aim is good. You can generally gauge the areas that are safe to hit
by following the crease between the ass cheeks. Do not hit above it, because
you will run into the kidney area, which is extremely sensitive and can
put someone in the hospital if it is struck too heavily. Hit below it
with caution, because you may be striking the sacrum (the human "tailbone")
at an angle that can break it if you are using a heavy paddle. At the
least, you will be striking in an area that does not have the protective
layers of fat.
The backs of the thighs are another frequent target of a spankers attentions.
These must be spanked with caution, because even a light paddle or an
open hand can cause painful muscle bruising that may leave someone limping
for days. A heavy paddle or an incorrectly wielded cane or crop can actually
tear or severly damage the muscle tissue, possibly causing long-term problems.
The backs of the knees should never be struck with anything, because of
the potential for damaging or detaching the tendons. The calves can be
safely whipped with a cat or a light cane or crop, but again, you need
to be careful to avoid damage to the underlying muscle. The ankles and
shins cannot be struck at all, and the bottoms of the feet can be whipped
with extreme care. While human feet are pretty tough and will generally
take no lasting damage from a light whipping, you may render someone unable
to walk without pain for a few days.
Does all of this sound scary? It should. While SM injuries are fortunately
fairly rare, they do happen. A would-be dominant should definitely learn
how to spank safely before doing any serious experimentation.
Once you learn how to spank safely, you are well on your way to learning
how to spank enjoyably. It is actually possible to give your partner an
orgasm by simply spanking him or her slowly and rhythmically, if you know
what you are doing. Of course, you may not necessarily want your naughty
partner to enjoy the spanking you are giving, but it is always nice to
know how to reward as well as punish.
In order to deliver the most enjoyable and erotic spanking possible, you
need to be able to give a good warm-up. Begin fairly lightly, especially
if your partner is new to the idea of being spanked. Try to establish
a steady rhythm. The ideal rhythm should be a lot like your preferred
sexual one, and should allow your partner to be stimulated by the constant,
rhythmical pressure of his or her genitals against your leg as you spank.
The tender area at the juncture of the thighs and ass is a good place
to deliver the spanking. In addition to being quite sensitive, it is also
an erogenous zone. Do not forget to intersperse your smacks with a lot
of rubbing and caressing.
If your partner seems tense or inhibited, you might want to raise the
level of sexual excitement by touching and stimulating his or her genitals
as you spank. If a person is in a state of sexual arousal, he or she can
usually take a lot more in the way of erotic pain.
My personal preference for delivering an erotic spanking is the bare hand,
slightly cupped for maximum effect. While I enjoy an over the knee spanking,
another favorite position of mine is to have my partner on all fours on
a bed or sofa. This way, I can stand roughly parallel to his waist and
really put my shoulder into the spanking. A broad, medium weight paddle
of a light-grained pine or other moderately dense wood is also nice, especially
when lined or covered with leather to reduce the sting a bit.
I keep a delightful paddle of burnished oak that is about an inch thick
and a foot wide which I would never allow into the hands of an inexperienced
spanker. I like to use it on very heavy masochists and also for a regular
spanking when my arm gets tired. I just kind of lift it up and drop it
over a slaves ass, and let the weight of the paddle do all the work.
Basically, anything made of leather, wood or plastic that has a broad
surface is safe to spank with. Be careful when you are using toys with
a small or thin striking surface, because they can concentrate a great
deal of force on a small area. Stick to toys with large surface areas
in proportion to their weight. Never use anything made of metal, and stay
away from the parts of the body that are unsafe to spank, such as the
kidneys, spine, sacrum, joint areas, and shins.
A good general rule to follow for body parts is that if it has a lot of
padding, it is probably safe to spank. If you would be hitting on or near
bones, tendons, or internal organs without a good layer of fat an muscle
interposing, it is probably unsafe to spank.
Read the entire S&M A Players Handbook Here. |
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